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zoegeo
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 Posted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 10:20 am Post subject: can architecture heal 'heart' issues? |
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they say that when your job is up too high you will understand it because your relationship will be ready to collapse into pieces..is ti possible to love this job to create and have a healthy realtionship on the other hand? i think architecture starts to absorb all my energy and leave nothing for the  man i love. is there a secret to compine both? |
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teamjdc
Joined: 25 Oct 2007
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| Posted: Tue Oct 14, 2008 9:13 am Post subject: |
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Sounds like a problem.
Let me guess,...
You have't been out of school long.
While in school, you were always into the glossy magazines and were fluent in all the names that appeared in those pages.
You're still that way.
You're finding it difficult to transition from school to work.
My only advice...
Get over it! |
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Kevin
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Location: Eugene, Oregon
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| Posted: Tue Oct 14, 2008 9:37 am Post subject: |
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It's always a challenge to balance and reconcile divergent passions... you are far from alone in finding a struggle there.
Try to stay patient and sympathetic, to your personal and work partners, and to yourself as well. Don't inflict costs on others that they cannot withstand, without being aware of the natural consequences - and take responsibility when you do.
Only by being realistic, patient, thoughtful, over time - honest, especially inside, as well as passionately committed - will you gradually learn to find your way, the balance you need, the balance that works for you.
Like the challenge, the reward is great also: living life to the fullest. |
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zoegeo
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| Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 10:14 am Post subject: |
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dear kevin,
i really appreciated that you've send such a thoughtfull message. it reveals to me that you're a composed and a sympathetic person. i m going to follow your guides.thanks a lot...  |
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geoffrey kabaale
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| Posted: Tue Oct 21, 2008 10:02 am Post subject: |
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| as long as you dont exceed the fourth flour. |
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